Saturday, January 9, 2010

Relationships......

Here is a great source for those looking for something quickly. Looking for something quickly, will not solve whatever challenge you have. Yet, beginning is a wonderful place to be. So much opportunity. Consider a clean slate - your mind is open - resistance is down - eyes, ears and mind are open and free from judgment.

OK, start there :) :) :) :)

Then head to klove.com where there is a daily "Love Dare." Rather than me go into depth here, go to the website and check it out. "The Love Dare" is a book. It is being posted on the site each day, and today is Day 4.

I'll be back - just HEARD the need and did not want you to leave you without support.

Squeeze joy - and Happy Saturday!

31 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan Joe here from Wisconsin--I saw the movie Fire Proof and have heard of The Love Dare. I look forward to hearing your perspective on relationships on how to go about dating all over again after losing my wife now going on 6 yrs and we were married 30 yrs. What do you do --- how do you begin ---I know things have changed.

So look forward to seeing what comes from the heart with your words.

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan---Jason from CT---Great post and I am aware of the Love Dare yet I need your insite on what is love all about and I'm dating someone and I need your help on doing the right thing as I'm dating this woman. What is really involved in the dating scene now. A bit out of touch with it.

What ever kind words and thoughts you can provide would be appreciated.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Dave of MA---Looking for your words on love and what does it take to truly be in a true relationship.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Ed of OK---Looking forward to hearing about dating relationship.

Anonymous said...

Susan----Zachy of IN--Need your thoughts on dating and love. Looking forward to seeing a post soon.

Anonymous said...

Susan-Raymond from Atlantic City--I'm dating someone and need your thoughts on love and what does it take.

Anonymous said...

Susan----Sherry here MS---Need help on how to have a relationship and what is involved these days on dating

Anonymous said...

Susan--Jeremy Rochester, NY---Need your thoughts on love and yes I said the word LOVE

Anonymous said...

Susan---Christopher of FL---Need help in the love end as things have not been the greatest between my wife and I now for awhile.

Please provide words of wisdom

Anonymous said...

Susan----Denny from TX---Great topic looking forward to hearing what you have to say on Love..

Anonymous said...

Susan----Nick from HI---really need your help on how to court someone and how to ask them out.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Mary of HI my friend just sent a comment and we both need your help on love in our relationship what is really involved.

Please share some warm words to us as we love each other yet how do you get closer with one another.

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan---Emery vacationing in England and a group of us would like to hear more on the dating scene now a days. It is a group of about 20 friends and we are all in our mid to late 50's and I am a loyal reader of yours and all of us have the same question about relationships.

How do you start dating again what is involved.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Michele of Rochester, NY my boyfriend and I have been dating a while now how do you get to the next level as my boyfriend is uncomfortable about talking about us.

Please provide help how to move forward in our relationship

Anonymous said...

Susan---Leonard of Rome NY---I am very interested on hearing more on love and dating as I am trying to pursue someone.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Joyce of AL--my husband and I are doing the Love Dare each day and we are finding it very interesting and would love to hear your perspective on love.

So far so good neither of us have knocked each other out yet..

Anonymous said...

Susan---Bill WV---my wife and I are doing the Love Dare also as we saw the other comment and it has been a challenge as I feel like taking the boxing gloves out and going around or 2.

Please share your thoughts on love and I don't know if I can last 40 days of trying to be nice all the time and saying sweet nothings to my wife...Pretty soon it will come down to where I have to wear pink.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Mike of VT---please share how do people do it now a days on dating... I am 55 yrs old and have never had a date and never been married. What do I need to do what steps are required in dating

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan---Lisa of Niagara Falls--Loyal reader and need some words of wisdom about dating

Anonymous said...

Good morning Susan---Renee of VT--Love your post and I so agree beginning is a wonderful place to be thank you for this reminder as I will consider a clean slate as I have been in a relationship for about 5 yrs now and I find myself passing judgment. This is an area that I truly dislike.

Any suggestions how to beginning again and get that love and closeness back and it seems something is missing at the moment and would love to have that healthy and nurturing relationship back.

I know it takes effort where do I begin.

Anonymous said...

Morning Susan---Diane of Rochester, NY. I so agree about beginning as I am in a relationship that I have allowed everything to get the best of me.

I tend to be very sensitive and my feelings get hurt quickly. What do you suggest the steps to take on not being so sensitive.

Love my partner and I try to keep the mind open yet please provide some ideas to try.

Anonymous said...

Susan---Matthew from SC--my mother died a week before Christmas as she was in a plane crash and never made it to us.

Our family has been so devastated by this and how do you continue as our kids miss there grandmother so much. What type of comfort can I continue to provide to my children as my kids are ages twin boys 7 years old and daughter 8 yrs and they so much loved there nana that's what they called my mom.

Our family are faithful readers of yours and seeing the picture that your photographer has provided has reassured us that my mother is on one of the angels wings that leads into the gates of heaven. The picture is truly remarkable.

If you can provide your warm words and comfort as you do so well at my family thanks you.

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan---Maria--Austin TX ---Your post have been so much comfort to me as my husband and we lost our baby girl who was only 8 months old she was rushed to the hospital about 2 wks ago with a high fever and after being at the hospital for only a couple of hours she stopped breathing and the doctors were not able to bring my little girl back to us.

We have asked God why did you take her away after just giving her to us.

We are in need of some kind and warm thoughts from you. How do you get past this hurt.

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan-Ben of OH---Would love to here your words about dating specifically how to go about courting a woman these days. It has been 8 yrs since I have dated as my wife died and have not know the approach to do anymore.

Any warm thoughts on this topic would be great

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan--Larry here of Syracuse NY I am doing the Love Dare yet so far nothing is working. I have been trying each days suggestions and there has been no response. Can you provide me with a suggestion that I can try to get some response.

I'm a bit frustrated. Please help

Anonymous said...

Hi Susan--Leanne of TN--My husband and are drifting apart and I started the Love Dare. Am I expecting too much if it seems like no actions are happening.

I need your warm words as I'm afraid of losing my husband

Anonymous said...

Susan--Carman of NV---I need some steps to take about dating it's been 10 yrs and I know things have changed.

Look forward to seeing a post on relationships.

Anonymous said...

Susan--Melissa of Hamlin NY--I have been going out with my boyfriend now for over a year. How do you know your in love what are some of the signs as I have not seen much.

Please send your inspiring words

Anonymous said...

Susan--James here of IN---You are such a god send love your post and it is good to know that I have a place to come for comfort as I just lost my wife of 20 yrs to cancer and I am hurting.

As I have been reading your post they have given me some piece of mind. What would be the first step on healing the heart.

Look forward to your response and I so believe in the picture your photographer placed. It is like the song On Eagles Wings and I believe my wife if on one of them and entering heaven with the white light surrounding her.

Anonymous said...

Susan ---Brad of Greensboro NC---Thank you for creating this site as you are a remarkable writer.

I am very interested on the topic of relationships as I am a teacher and this is what my class is learning and I can always use assistance in this area. The way I work my class room is that I have quite a bit of interactive so were all learning together and discussing questions as them come up.

Hope to see some post soon from your perspective.

Anonymous said...

Susan--Emery here I am still in England on vacation.

My friends and I are sitting down to dinner and we are looking at my friends lap top and we all have a question for you as we are a group of men that are either divorced or have lost a wife.

We would like to know how do you begin the dating process again and what steps are needed and where does one go these days to find someone.

Can you provide a step by step process as we are enjoying your blog. Everyone around the table here say hi to a talented and gifted writer.

The England Gang