"The best way to predict the future is to create it." by Peter Drucker
This resonates with me - as I have learned that everything I have now I have created with my reactions, decisions, indecisions, choices, or lack of choice. You might ask indecisions or lack of choice? Yes, when I let others choose or let decisions pass me by, and I allow others to make the decision. Regardless of the steps taken, all of mine have created the life and present I have now.
Since I am so aware of this concept, that I have truly been creating my future. I want to coach, and I am. Yet, I truly love many things. Recently I determined that I wanted a full-time position and coach part-time. Among other things, I returned to an employment agent that I had met a few years ago. She remembered my resume, we met, and a week later I had an interview. I had the interview on Monday, references were requested on Tuesday, and an offer made on Wed. I accepted on Thursday after clarifying a few details.
I am creating my future. I still have my evenings and weekends, I will be gainfully employed in an environment that I have envisioned. You see, I have done my homework. A few years ago I did a process to describe my perfect day -- in detail -- from morning until night on one piece of paper. I described my perfect job on another. I described my perfect living environment on another. A few times I went back to them and made a few changes based on my then current desires and needs.
That is how you create your own future.
1. Make your own decisions.
2. Make your own clear choices.
3. Create a vision in different environments - spiritual, living, financial, relationship, wardrobe, etc. etc. etc. Get as detailed as you can. Put it in a book, so it can expand as your mind and vision expands. Think BIG - it can happen. If you think small, small will happen. Then set it aside and forget about it. You have asked.
4. Take steps every day. If you miss a day, cheers, there will be another.
5. No self bashing allowed. Shake it off, reassess, and move forward again.
6. and, hire a coach.
Squeeze the joy from every minute - minutes don't return, yet memories do!
About Me
- A tidbit
- As a Lounge Chair to Victory collaborator, my style of coaching is about you!!!! What do you want, need,what is missing? Create a larger vision to attract opportunities--such as more money or great relationships, tear down walls. Healthy lifestyle vs. lose weight; enjoy each day vs. working drudgery, start your own business. There are so many possibilities what are you missing? Not sure; let's communicate. Contact: itsyourlifenet@yahoo.com
1 comment:
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